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Wasnt my decision
by: S. I. on Mon, Jun 25 2007
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Hello i am engaged to a man that had a vasectomy before our relationship ever started. He had the procedure done because of a prior pregnancy that ended in abotion. This had nothing to do with me. I feel as though i am the one being punished for the decisons of another. I hate the thought but love my fiance very much. Dont know if i will ever really deal with this. I personally think that the procedure is a very drastic measure to take. I do not agree with it. Please men think about your future wives and girlfriend not just the now.


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  1. Thu, Aug 21 2008
    You just hang in there even if it is just by a hair just hang in there. Yes it hurts and it is a hurt and longing so hard to explain. I cried everyd...Read
  2. Thu, Aug 21 2008
    Thanks a lot Natalie, you don't know what this means to me, I'm in tears right now. It's like a constant pain in my chest wanting and wanting and not...Read
  3. Thu, Aug 21 2008
    Just an update I am now 23 weeks pregnant, and everything is going good. We are definitley having a girl. I am going to be very honest with you beca...Read
  4. Thu, Aug 21 2008
    Dear Natalie, did your husband have any treatments after the reversal? We had it done ± 17 months ago after 17 years and still nothing. I'm so frust...Read
  5. Thu, Apr 10 2008
    Congrats! My huspand had a reversal after 8 years at the end of September of last year. I just found out I am 4 weeks pregnant!!! I wish you the ab...Read

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  • Wasnt my decision - by S. I. - (Mon, Jun 25 2007)
    Hello i am engaged to a man that had a vasectomy before our relationship ever started. He had the procedure done because of a prior pregnancy that ended in abotion. This had nothing to do with me. [more..]
  • Vasectomy (Simple & Easy) - by Peter - (Thu, Jun 14 2007)
    If you’re having a vasectomy soon, perhaps my experience will prepare you for the procedure. Just to give you a little background, I’m 36 year old with no kids, married twice (widowed once, just re-married). I wanted one so I could take the birth control burden off my wife, since we have no plans to have kids (unless we adopt). [more..]

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