Coping With Vaginal Prolapse

I have what they call a recocele prolapse ive been sufferung alot stress incontinence pain dragging and although sounds strange i feel sometimes like i want to bear down and push it all out. Ive been trying and trying to get to see my consultant its taken forever and alot of complaining but im due to see him on the 20th of this month im having to push my poo out manually i have to lean right forward to empty my bladder i cant sleep with my husband its to painful and im in alot of pain and so tired all the time. Ive three young kids to run round after and my life is just really difficult. Im worried that the doc going to say it aint bad enough to operate to put it right but surely i know its not going to get better so he has to do something the ring was uselesss. Ive no one to talk to about this has anyone else been through thiss and had to go through the same struggle to get help to sort it and fight ive been fighting for 6mnths for them to take me seriously at first they said you dont get pain with a prolapse so am I imagining the pain?