Living with Overactive Bladder

I am 47 was very healthy.. I had a hysterctomy last year march 07, I been having to many trips to the bathroom keeping me from sleeping nights I am so tried an depressed i dont go anywhere anymore I tried detrol la a n those kinds of meds i get sick bloated an more pain I had a tummy tuck with that hysterctomy an pain on the right side still i been back an forth for answeres an they say maybe the pain is in your head this is to much my husban notice a change in me an the night sweas an depression what happen to me.. i want a normal life againn is there any other way to take natural meds for this urination problem. i went to urplogist he was so rude an said i had to much rong with me he coulnt help me what kind of anser was that an curesed at me as well with no one around since then my bad experince left me home bound an afraid to get help please if ther is anything you can suggest let me know Mrs florio Coral Springs Fl an a better doctor to help me.. he said i had polops in

the uretha they were benign but when if he misdonised me he was a rude

man an i did go to the office mgr but what can i do now. anyone can youhelp me figure out naturlly to get my life back
Mrs Florio
Coral Springs Fl