Living with Female Sexual Dysfunction

I am a 35yr old male. My wife(32) of nine years. Acts as if she could care less about sex in any way. We have two children 8, and 18month old. When we got married that was all she wanted to do. It was aleast 6 times a week, unless she was on her monthly. After the first child, and the waiting period was over everthing was back to normal. then about 2 years ago it just stopped like she went on strike or somthing. After the 2nd child was born , its became allmost complete stop now.

We had sex 8 time last year, and only 1 time this year. And when I talk to her about it she gets mad, so im at the point were I dont know what else to do. I have tried talking about it, I tried showering her with gifts out of the blue, I even wrote a love letter like you use to when you were in school, that brought tears to her eyes. But all is still the same. I dont understand maybe im wrong. I thought about cheating, but never have, prob. never will. If im wrong someone please tell me.