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Husband has ED
by: What now? on Fri, Apr 10 2009
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My husband has ED and we have been dealing with it for about 3 years at this point. HE has ED because he was always a terrible diabetic.

On the one hand I truly feel bad for him because he has heart issues and cant use Levitra, Viagra, etc. However I am an attractive woman in her early thirties and I cant believe that this is my fate simply because he is selfish likes dessert and junk food. I workout and keep myself in excellent shape and I am constantly fighting with my morals because I believe that one of the worst things that one can do is commit adultery.

Also, because of his embarrassment over his flaccid penis for the last year we can go months without sex. I understand that he cant exactly be happy with the way things are going, that has basically been my mantra lately. Also, his embarrassment keeps us from enjoying other things as well since he doesnt “want to bring a wet sock to a gunfight”.

Basically, I a sending this message out to the women who may be dealing with this same issue. What have you done to try to keep things going? I dont have any idea, and I am reaching the end of my rope. My husband is a great guy in every other respect and I think I would be a horrible person for ending my marriage just because I want to get laid.


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  1. Wed, Nov 04 2009
    Kirk01: I truly appreciate your honesty and courage to post your comments. I do understand what my husband is going through and have supported him t...Read
  2. Tue, Nov 03 2009
    Hang in there gals. From a man's pespective, I can tell you what your husband is dealing with is not easy either. Let's face it, you leave him, he'll ...Read
  3. Thu, Sep 24 2009
    Hello Just Me I read your post of two days ago and my heart just ached for you and was so glad to see the JMC was able to reply with such a thoughtfu...Read
  4. Wed, Sep 23 2009
    Dear Just Me: It is very difficult to have to go through this alone. Believe me, you are not alone, as I have come to find out through this web site...Read
  5. Tue, Sep 22 2009
    Your post mirrored my relationship with my husband except for the 2 kids and dealing with "the elephant in the room" for five years. I have...Read

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  • disaster - by STE - (Wed, Apr 08 2009)
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